Lockdown was the best thing that ever happened to us.
It was September 2020. LA was shut down. No restaurants, no parties, no distractions, just two native New Yorkers orbiting each other in the silence of the city, swiping on dating apps with mild skepticism and zero expectations. And yet somehow here we are.
With nothing to do and nowhere to go, we just hung out and talked. A lot. We’d walk to each other’s apartments, pick up a bottle of wine on the way, plop down on the couch, and gab about life, our families back home, and how much we missed good bagels. In December, we caught COVID and spent two weeks passing tissues, tea, and Tylenol back and forth. Somewhere between the fever dreams and takeout pho, we realized we were in it for the long haul.
Now, a few years later, we're building a life that teeters between creative chaos and quiet joy. Ruby’s a stylist. Nico writes about men’s fashion. We have two crusty little white dogs we found on the street. We share a love for clothes, coffee, deep dives, reality television, and doing things our own way [including this wedding].
We’re so excited to celebrate with all the people who’ve shaped our story so far, and all those who will help shape the next chapter.
We know traveling to our wedding might be a big trip for some of you, and we completely understand if you’re not able to make it.
Whether you're there in person or in spirit, we truly appreciate your love and support.
Staten Island is pretty easy to get to from other parts of town, but if possible, we recommend staying on the island, as it’ll make things even easier.
If you’re flying, the closest airport is Newark (EWR).
If you're coming from elsewhere in New York City, you can take the free Staten Island Ferry from Lower Manhattan, or drive over the Verrazzano Bridge from Brooklyn.
On the night of the wedding, we’ll have a shuttle running between the venue and the Staten Island Ferry, so you don’t need a car if you're staying somewhere with access to public transit.
Uber and Lyft also work well on the island if needed.
How do I RSVP?
We’ll be collecting RSVPs closer to the big day. Keep an eye on your mailbox for a formal invitation!
I’m coming from out of town. Where should I stay?
There are a few hotels on Staten Island, but we’d recommend the Hilton Garden Inn, or looking at Airbnb or VRBO. You could also stay in Lower Manhattan or Brooklyn (this is New York City, after all — you can get anywhere at any time!).
Do you have a registry?
We don’t have a traditional registry. Instead, we’re asking for contributions to our honeymoon fund. The best gift would be a daiquiri on the beach, courtesy of you.
Should I plan to bring my brand-new girlfriend? I think she’s the one.
We are sooo happy for you, but no. To keep our celebration intimate, we kindly ask that only those listed on the invitation envelope attend. Thank you for understanding!
Most importantly, what is the dress code?
Semiformal, fun, and danceable. We love to dress up and encourage you to do so, but this is a casual affair with grass underfoot. That being said, feel free to turn a look! You know we will.
